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  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family
  • wp socializer sprite mask 16px Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her family

joely richardson 450x600 Joely Richardson writes the wrongs about her familyNow I know that blogs must never, ever repro­duce an art­icle in its entirety, but below is the com­plete piece writ­ten for today’s Tele­graph by Joely Richardson.

I must have been one of thou­sands who remained open-mouthed at the title “Revealed: The day Vanessa Redgrave found her hus­band in bed with her father” in the Daily Mail; a title that has now been changed on the inter­net to “The cursed leg­acy that still haunts ”.

Joely Richard­son, daugh­ter of Vanessa, is eager to put the record straight. She says, “The argu­ment of “today’s news, tomorrow’s fish and chips” no longer holds, with inform­a­tion stored on the inter­net”, which is why the more her cor­rec­tion is reprin­ted, the more chance there is of can­cel­ling the effect of the many blogs which seem to have copied the ori­ginal art­icle word for word.

So here, word for word, is what Joely has to say:

Free­dom of the press, and it being used respons­ibly, are very hot top­ics at present given the phone hack­ing investigation.

Last week a national news­pa­per pub­lished excerpts from an unau­thor­ised bio­graphy titled The House of Redgrave — The Secret Lives of the The­at­rical Dynasty.

My fam­ily heard about the pro­posed book two years ago. The author approached my sis­ter Nata­sha claim­ing he was writ­ing an appre­ci­at­ive book on my father, Tony Richardson’s, work. There’s much to appreciate.

As the son of a chem­ist from Ship­ley, he won a schol­ar­ship to Oxford, came to Lon­don and, accord­ing to the FT, was: “Britain’s most admir­able film maker”, and that the Renais­sance of Brit­ish theatre in the 1950s and of Brit­ish cinema in the 1960s “owed more to his flair and fear­less­ness in cre­at­ing some­thing new than to any other per­son or his­tor­ical factor”.

“Hear, Hear,” added the author when he for­war­ded this art­icle to Nata­sha. Des­pite this, my sis­ter smelled a rat, and said that the fam­ily would not con­trib­ute to the book unless by mutual con­sent via law­yers and lit­er­ary agents. The author replied: “It won’t come to that because this is going to be a great exper­i­ence for us all. I am, after all, only embark­ing on this pro­ject because of my admir­a­tion for Tony”. The fam­ily firmly declined.

In the wake of Natasha’s passing I star­ted to receive calls from friends and acquaint­ances say­ing they’d been con­tac­ted by this indi­vidual who had now changed his nar­rat­ive to a book on the Redgraves.

He claimed to have Natasha’s back­ing before she died. Any­one close to us refused to col­lab­or­ate. When a bio­graphy is unau­thor­ised, the writer, hav­ing no access to the dir­ect story, must inev­it­ably “fill in the blanks”. At this point the nar­rat­ive enters the realm of inven­tion, “make believe” at some times hys­ter­ical, and some times awful.

One of his more insens­it­ive descrip­tions is of Vanessa singing Edel­weiss to Nata­sha in hos­pital. I asked my mother if this was true, as I had no memory of it, and it seemed such a bizarre choice on every level, least of which was that it played no part in our child­hood: “Darling I don’t even know the words to it!” she replied.

Con­cern­ing the respons­ib­il­ity of the press, a national news­pa­per recently decided to print this cobbled-together prose — taken from inter­views, excerpts of auto­bi­o­graph­ies — but all taken out of con­text. It included a good dose of “he said/she said” of which the large per­cent­age of people quoted are now dead. A use­ful tool in his case.

The news­pa­per pulled out a trun­cated ver­sion of a sen­tence that stated “the day Vanessa Redgrave walked in to find her hus­band in bed with her father”. It repeatedly ran this state­ment as its head­line. If one were to have read the whole piece, it did men­tion right at the very end — small print as it were — that “someone (now dead) sup­posedly said it to someone”.

If we are to enter a phase of journ­al­ism where “rumour has it” is print­able, then no one is safe. It’s vastly irre­spons­ible and as my favour­ite Chinese whis­per joke goes “send rein­force­ments we’re going to advance” whis­per, whis­per down the line, “what did he say?” — “He said send three and four­pence we’re going to a dance!”.

The argu­ment of “today’s news, tomorrow’s fish and chips” no longer holds, with inform­a­tion stored on the inter­net. This should heighten the bar of respons­ib­il­ity, not lower it.

The art­icles reduced my par­ents to the labels of “Bisexual Father and Marx­ist Mother”. Myopic to say the least. My mother, for the last 20 years any­way, would not call her­self a Marx­ist but a human rights act­iv­ist. In fact she has not been a mem­ber of any polit­ical party for dec­ades. In the last two gen­eral elec­tions she has voted Lib­eral Demo­crat. For the past 16 years she has been a Unicef Global Good­will Ambassador.

My father’s bisexu­al­ity is a foot­note if any­thing, not a head­line of what defined his great con­tri­bu­tion to the arts. Are Ten­nessee Wil­li­ams or Ter­ence Rat­tigan known as “gay play­wrights”? Of course not. The pre­ju­dice dis­played by both the author and the news­pa­per in the pub­lished extracts reminded me of Oscar Wilde’s trial at the Old Bailey. Please tell me we’ve moved on from 1895!

I am try­ing to ignore the more emo­tional argu­ment, which I sup­pose could be purely per­sonal. Does a woman who lost her eld­est daugh­ter, sis­ter and brother within a year need to be reminded of how she might have failed loved ones 30 years ago? Love her or loathe her she is undoubtedly one of the greatest act­resses of all time. Last year Bafta awar­ded her a “fel­low­ship” for her con­tri­bu­tion to film and television.

Vanessa would be the first to say her polit­ics, or actions, have been mis­guided at times. But com­pare a woman who gives the shirt off her back (she does live in a small two-bedroom flat as a res­ult — the book was right about that one) with news­pa­pers or writers who profit from the misery of others.

The highest pay cheque my mother ever received fun­ded the build­ing of a nurs­ery school in Shepherd’s Bush — the school cost well over three times the money she donated to the mak­ing of the film The Palestinian. Unsur­pris­ingly this always goes unmen­tioned in the press.

My sis­ter and I have always wor­ried about Vanessa’s total self­less­ness, hence Tasha’s very poignant present to mum shortly before she died — a little purse embroidered with “save for a rainy day”.

Why bother address­ing these issues pub­licly? I’d prefer not to, but these “state­ments” were issued pub­licly about my fam­ily. So I’m using the free­dom of the press to respond with the truth.

My mother did not walk in to find her father in bed with her hus­band. Silly as pie on the one hand, highly defam­at­ory on the other: “pruri­ent con­tempt­ible hack­ery” as a friend described it. As a fam­ily we are tak­ing legal action.

To news­pa­pers and pub­lish­ing houses I urge the use of fact over fic­tion, free­dom of the press, and respons­ib­il­ity at all times.

via The Tele­graph

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